Sarah Michelle Gellar has dealt with vampires, werewolves and extra on display with ease, however off display, defending her two children is more durable once they have a lot expertise at their fingertips.
“There’s elements of [technology] which can be nice, and there are elements of it that aren’t,” Gellar, 46, instructed Us Weekly whereas selling her partnership with UScellular for the World Day of Unplugging, which is on Friday, March 1. “I really like the concept I do know the place they’re always as a result of it exhibits up on my cellphone. I took two crosstown buses in New York Metropolis to get to high school. My mother had no concept the place I used to be, and I can’t even think about what that should’ve been like for her.”
The Buffy the Vampire Slayer alum shares daughter Charlotte, 14, and son Rocky, 11, along with her husband of almost 22 years, Freddie Prinze Jr. The pair set strict guidelines for his or her children in terms of web entry and their gadgets, however that doesn’t imply simply proscribing display time as an entire.
“Look, we had rain for 5 days. What do I anticipate these children to do?” Gellar mentioned. “I wish to be sensible with them about their time.”
Meaning establishing some pointers. Gellar mentioned that their children first have to attend till ending elementary college to get their very own cellphone. “You need to graduate decrease college to get your cellphone, so my son really shall be getting his cellphone in June,” Gellar defined to Us. “He doesn’t have one but. He has an iPad for journey and stuff like that.”
Sarah Michelle Gellar. MICHAEL TRAN/AFP by way of Getty Pictures
The Do Revenge star additionally takes full benefit of the parental controls when she lets one in all her kids use a pill or cellphone, monitoring what number of hours they spend in entrance of the display and what they’re taking a look at. “We will’t anticipate children to have the ability to self-regulate, proper? That’s one thing that we’re nonetheless studying tips on how to do [as adults],” she mentioned.
Although Gellar can management the gadgets she buys for his or her children, she will’t management different children and their telephones — which may result in some awkward conditions. Gellar was shocked when one in all Rocky’s mates with a cellphone as soon as confirmed him one thing on the web about her.
“It was really my son in the future who got here house and mentioned, oh, so-and-so has a cellphone or one thing. They appeared it up and we needed to clarify that you could’t try this,” she recalled, including that the college has some protections in place. “Numerous the college computer systems within the decrease college, you really can’t search for quite a lot of the dad and mom since you don’t want that info or these pictures or no matter. I don’t want my fifth grader watching Merciless Intentions.”
The summer season shall be a studying expertise for her son as he figures out the boundaries his mother units together with his cellphone. “I management what sort of web sites when he first will get it that he may be on, in order that I can type of use that because the educating second,” Gellar shared. “And when it shuts off, they notice how lengthy they’ve really been on it, after which it’s as much as me to resolve: can you might have extra time?”
Display time is one impediment, however social media use is a special beast. Gellar mentioned that social profiles are a privilege that her children “earn later” after they get a cellphone, which Charlotte didn’t recognize.
“My daughter thought it was unfair. She was one of many final ones to get [social media],” she mentioned. “However I did have to elucidate to her that when your dad and mom are public figures, there’s simply type of this totally different algorithm that comes with it, and my son shall be somewhat bit higher about it. He doesn’t actually care about that. However when my daughter first obtained social media, our rule was that she couldn’t publish something till she confirmed it to us and ran it by us as a result of we needed to say, ‘Perhaps it’s good to take into consideration the track that’s behind that,’ or ‘possibly this might …’ to essentially type of perceive — as a result of once more — you may’t anticipate them to only mechanically know. And it’s arduous. It’s studying a brand new algorithm.”
Nonetheless, Charlotte isn’t the one one studying the brand new guidelines. Gellar defined that she has to determine what’s acceptable now versus when she was a child.
“I spotted as I used to be speaking to my daughter about it that I’m a baby of the ’80s. ‘Don’t discuss to strangers, don’t meet folks on-line,’” she mentioned. “And now, that’s how these children meet, and she or he’s really made nice mates that reside in several cities. And we didn’t was once bizarre about pen friends. It’s nonetheless type of the identical concept. So there’s no roadmap for me. So we’re type of studying collectively.”
They’re additionally studying tips on how to disconnect collectively. Gellar teamed up with UScellular for the World Day of Unplugging to help the corporate’s mission to encourage more healthy digital habits.
“Unplugging is one thing I really don’t suppose we communicate sufficient about,” Gellar instructed Us. “We discuss rather a lot in regards to the issues that we’re seeing from this very digitally related world — the quantities of loneliness, that individuals can’t have eye contact anymore, that they will’t have confrontation as a result of they actually don’t know tips on how to deal once they’re not behind a keyboard — and one of many issues that I spotted by myself is what these resets, these breaks [from the screen], actually do for you.”
She continued, “I feel as a result of life strikes so shortly, we don’t notice how a lot we’re counting on them and utilizing them to fill our time and never really do the issues that feed our souls.
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So when UScellular requested her to companion with them for the Day of World Unplugging, Gellar mentioned it was a no brainer. “What an amazing instance that I can set for my children and actually present them that that is one thing that I do take significantly and that I’m not saying no expertise,” she mentioned. “Know-how is wonderful, however we do need to revisit our relationship with it.”
UScellular will even donate as much as $50,000 to the nonprofit group Unplug Collaborative, which organizes the World Day of Unplugging, for each share of their World Day of Unplugging picture, which may be discovered on Gellar’s social media profiles.
